• ELIXHER
• On December 3, 2013

Oftentimes we read stories about parents of color rejecting kids because of their orientation or gender identity. While this is certainly a reality in our communities, there are many moms and dads that are creating inclusive homes for not only their LGBT children but gay and trans youth everywhere. Exhibit A: Midge Purcell, proud mom of a gay son and PFLAG Portland Black Chapter member. PFLAG is the country’s largest organization for parents, families, friends, and straight allies united with people who are lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.

Purcell was recently one of the recipients of the Spirit of Portland Award, an honor that recognizes local individuals and organizations who have demonstrated an outstanding dedication to positive change in the community. As the Director of Advocacy and Public Policy of the Urban League of Portland, Purcell has provided tremendous leadership in helping the League become a vital resource to the Portland community — for gay and straight residents alike. Khalil Edwards, PFLAG Portland Black Chapter President, can attest to her commitment to the cause.

Purcell (center) with an Urban League staffer and Portland resident

“It is through Midge’s leadership that the League continues to move forward in becoming a truly inclusive organization to the entire African American community,” says Edwards. “For the past few years Midge has marched with Portland Black Pride in our Annual Pride Parade. This year she joined us again, bringing fellow Urban League staff and members along with their banner! Her vocal and public support of LGBT families in both her personal and professional life has been a huge asset to PFLAG Portland Black Chapter.”

According to Edwards, it is largely because of Purcell and her support that PFLAG Portland Black Chapter was able to partner with the Urban League on their groundbreaking report Lift Every Voice. The report highlights the experiences of African American LGBT Oregonians and continues to be used as a tool for community leaders and elected officials across the state.

“Lift Every Voice lifted up the experiences and made visible families in our community that are too often made invisible,” adds Edwards.

In previous years, Purcell has signed on to coalition letters urging Oregon residents to support LGBT families. ”LGBT families of color are part of the fabric of our community and members of our own families,” it stated. “Unfortunately, some of our LGBT family members do not feel our community’s full support…we are coming out as friends, family and public allies of LGBT families of color.”

Parents like Purcell not only get it, they’re paying it forward. And that shouldn’t go unnoticed.

To learn more about the PFLAG Portland Black Chapter, visit pflagpdx.org.